Every child is different when it comes to introducing a new baby, some children find the adjustment very difficult and may regress, others adapt quickly. Often the older the child the easier the transition. If your child is under two they may still be needing the attention a baby needs and may resent having to share his parents love with another baby. An older child tends to be more independent and less needing to be babied hence more likely to adjust quicker. All children have a desire to help which can be used in their favour and to your advantage when the baby arrives. Getting your older child involved will help them not only to feel needed but help them see their place in the family unit as being important. First children who have been doted upon since an early age find it difficult to share their parents attention with anyone.
There are some things that can ensure a smoother transition such as making changes two or three months before the baby arrives. This may include changing bedrooms or moving from a cot to a bed. Enrolling your toddler into activities away from mum, where they can mix with their peers and learn to be less dependant on mummy. This will also give mum time alone with baby. Don’t leave making these arrangements to the last minute as you may find you run out of time if baby arrives early. Talk about the new baby and where he/she will be sleeping etcetera.
Let your toddler know when you are going to hospital and have a gift from the baby to give to their older sibling.
When baby has arrived the less changes your toddler goes through the smoother his transition. Be prepared with activities to entertain him/her when you are feeding the baby. Spend quality time with your toddler when baby is sleeping. Reassure him/her with lots of cuddles and hugs during this time.
Out side help is best utilised to enable you to spend more time with your older sibling.
If you would like more information on this and other similar topics our E-books are packed full of practical parenting tips. Down load an E-Book specifically related to your child's age group through Publications at Our Shop.
How Cradle 2 Kindy Can Help
Cradle 2 Kindy coaches can help you with a variety of topics that cover children from birth to five years old.
Give Cradle 2 Kindy 1300 786 101 a call now to book a visit so that we can assist you with questions relating to your children.
Also see: What happens at a Coaching session?
More Articles on Miscellaneous topics
Disclaimer: Article on our website are for education
purposes only. Please consult with your doctor to make sure this
information is right for your child.
All articles on this website have a copyright. The use of any
material must have permission from Cradle 2 Kindy Parenting Solutions.
Comments
Post has no comments.